Day 100humilityintegrityself-awareness
Not Speaking Above One's Practice
In one concise sentence, Confucius captures a core Confucian ethic: the shame of saying more than one has lived. The verb 過 (guò) means 'to exceed' or 'to surpass.' The noble person feels genuine embarrassment—not guilt imposed from outside, but an inner compass—when their talk outstrips their conduct. This is the opposite of boasting.