Caring for the Vulnerable
Yan Hui and Zilu attended the Master. He said, 'Why not each tell me your aspirations?' Zilu said, 'I would share my carriages, horses, and fine clothes with friends, and feel no regret if they were worn out.' Yan Hui said, 'I would wish never to boast of my goodness, nor to impose burdens on others.'
In this famous scene, Confucius invites two disciples to share their deepest aspirations. Zilu's is bold generosity—sharing possessions freely. Yan Hui's is quieter and more radical—never to boast and never to cause suffering. Both speak to ren. Confucius himself then says he wishes to comfort the old, be trusted by friends, and cherish the young.