In an age of constant self-promotion, Yan Hui's wish is countercultural. Parents who quietly do good—helping a neighbor without posting about it, volunteering without seeking applause, giving without keeping score—teach their children that virtue is not a performance. When a parent says, 'I did something kind today and I'd rather not talk about it,' the child learns that the deepest satisfaction comes from the act itself, not from recognition. This is not about hiding goodness but about finding its reward in the doing, not the telling.